Handling Common Culture Shocks in Romania

Moving to a new country is exciting, but it often comes with surprises. Romania is no exception. While most expats quickly fall in love with the country, there are cultural quirks that can take some adjustment. Here are some of the most common culture shocks you might experience in Romania, along with practical tips for handling them.

1. Direct Communication Style

Romanians can be very straightforward, especially compared to cultures where small talk and politeness soften every interaction. What may feel blunt to you is simply considered honest here.

• How to handle it: Don’t take it personally. See it as refreshing honesty, and remember that it usually comes with good intentions.

2. Bureaucracy and Paperwork

Many newcomers are surprised by how much paperwork is needed for things like registering your rental, getting residency permits, or setting up utilities.

• How to handle it: Patience is key. Always keep copies of your documents, and if possible, bring a Romanian-speaking friend or hire an agent to help you navigate the system.

3. Queues and Personal Space

You might notice people standing closer to you in line than you’re used to. Cutting in line also happens more often than in some Western countries.

• How to handle it: Stay calm, hold your place, and politely assert yourself if someone tries to skip ahead.

4. Smoking Culture

Smoking is still common in Romania, especially outdoors and on terraces. Some expats are surprised by how widespread it is compared to their home countries.

• How to handle it: Seek out non-smoking venues (they are becoming more common) and be prepared for a more relaxed attitude toward smoking in social settings.

5. Cash Is Still King

Although card payments are widespread in big cities, cash is still preferred in many places—especially in smaller towns, markets, and taxis.

• How to handle it: Always carry some Romanian lei with you. Small notes are especially useful.

6. Punctuality (or Lack of It)

Romanians are generally relaxed about time. Being a few minutes late is common and not seen as rude.

• How to handle it: Don’t stress too much if things start later than planned. If punctuality is important for you, kindly clarify expectations when arranging meetings.

7. Hospitality and Generosity

Romanians are famously warm hosts. If you’re invited to someone’s home, expect to be served generous amounts of food and drink.

• How to handle it: Always bring a small gift (like flowers, chocolates, or wine). Accepting second helpings is seen as appreciation, not greed.

Final Thoughts

Culture shock is part of the adventure of living abroad. With an open mind and a bit of patience, you’ll not only adapt but also come to enjoy these cultural differences. Many expats in Romania find that the very quirks that once seemed surprising become the things they love most about life here. Join groups like Internations, Facebook expat groups, gyms, dance classes and so forth to ease your integration.